Anger

 

'Anger is one letter short of DANGER'. Anger can do something very harmful to you as well as to the others. It is very important to control your anger. 'Strength does not lie in carrying heavy loads. Camels do that. Strength lies in controlling your temper'.  When you are angry, you are not in your senses  because you do useless things like yelling at others and getting more frustrated after doing it. So try to control your anger before anger controls you. Sometimes you take a decision in anger and you might end up regretting it all your life. 'You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger'. Be a good and a patient person. Learn to appreciate everything and learn to deal with all types of people without getting angry. Anger can only be controlled by you, you have to make efforts to control it, no one else will do that for you. Just be cool and calm. Sometimes things change, people change but that does not mean that you need to hurt yourself by getting angry. It is alright, try to understand the things and reasons behind everything. The truth might surprise you. Even if you are frustrated with everything in your life, still do not lose hope and be cool. Things will change not immediately but gradually. Great things take time. By being angry, you might end up losing your closed ones. So try not to be angry. 'If another can easily anger you,it is because you are off balance with yourself'. Never say something in anger that hurt the other person, you might end up losing them. 'Just because you are angry, does not mean you have the right to be cruel'. People are not perfect, relations are perfect so do no lose any relation just because of your stupid ANGER. 'Explain your anger, do not express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments'. It is good to be angry if someone does something wrong but tell them so properly without shouting at them. This way you will be able to control your anger. But most of the time you get angry on stupid things which is not good so avoid getting angry. Have self control. 'Make your anger so expensive that no one can afford it and make your happiness so cheap that people can always get it free'.

Expectations

 

'Expectation is the root cause of unhappiness.' Try not to expect anything from anyone if you really want to be happy. People are not always as you think, so never depend on them. No matter how much close you are to a person, they will change. There are very rare chances that they will be like that and will  not change but actually you are important for someone only for sometime, not always. So stop expecting that people should understand you, stop expecting that they will do whatever you will say them to do, they have their own life, do not impose something on them otherwise you might end up losing that person. 'Always hope for something but never expect'. You have to go through all disappointments in order to be happy. There might be some good people in your life but still try not to expect. I know not expecting something is a difficult task because we are willing to do that much for them but there comes a time in your life when you will get to see the true colours of people and then you will realize who are actually worth your time.' There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who won't even jump puddles for you.' There are people who are always there for other people but when they need someone by their side, no one is there and this really hurts a lot but you have to learn to deal with everything on your own because sometimes you have to be your own hero.

Do good for others without expecting something in return. Make yourself strong and don't get affected by these things because you will meet many people in your life, and not everyone will stay so keep it simple by not expecting anything. And do not lose your self respect. If a person avoids you, they do not want to talk to you then accept it and move on. Do not beg in front of them to talk, if they want to go, let them go. It only happens when you give some other person more importance than yourself , learn to respect and love yourself. 'Learn to carry yourself on your own back. People will drop you quicker than they pick you up.' 'Do not depend too much on anyone in this world, even your own shadow leaves you in darkness.' But it does not mean to not to have friends or something. Make friends and trust people because if there are bad people then there are also good people and everyone have some people in their life who will never leave them and will always be by their side but still expectation brings unhappiness so try to avoid it. 'Don't blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them.'

Think big

 

Thinking big doesn't mean that just thinking of doing something, you have to take actions and make things really happen. The problem with the people of is that they only want to do their job and work like a normal person, they do not even think of doing something other than that. Most people do not even know what they want to do and they didn't even try to know it. Sometimes there are people who just have a degree but no knowledge. The important thing is to have knowledge and that to have a practical knowledge not the bookish knowledge.If you have knowledge then you will get a job but if you can then think of creating jobs. The main reason of unemployment is that people have a degree but no knowledge and also because everyone want to do a good job but nobody thinks of creating job opportunities for other people. It is not that people are not capable of it, some people are capable but they don't do it due to fear of failure. Failure is just the part of life, you have to face it some or the other time, do something big and be successful.Do something that people will remember you even after your death. Follow your passion if you really want to be happy and successful. Being successful should not be the only aim of life but also to be happy. Take small steps in the right directions and gradually you will achieve your dreams.'Do something that your signature becomes your autograph'.  I am really inspired by a person named Trishneet Arora, he failed in class 8th but today he is the CEO of a company named TAC Security, he is an ethical hacker. He was passionate for hacking and after he failed in class 8th, he decided to drop school and give time to hacking and now he is the CEO of his company and the turnover is in crores. Success is not defined by your marks or by your degrees but by the knowledge you have. If you follow your passion, nobody can stop you from doing great things. Today the world needs more and more Entrepreneurs who could create job opportunities to fight with unemployment. Do something for your own country, not for other. We have many talented people but they are working for other countries so firstly make your country developed then work for other countries. This type of thinking can actually make a difference.  Doing big things doesn't only mean to establish your own company, but it  means to do the work you love to do, work for your country and help others in some or the other way, this is the best way to do great things.

Never lose hope

 

'Hope is a little whisper you hear when the entire world is shouting No'. Bad things happen in your life, you make wrong decisions, you make mistakes but always have faith that everything will be alright after some time. There are times when you feel completely broken and didn't know what to do, HOPE is the thing that keeps you going. People do not easily quit their life, it is the extreme case when they are hopeless and helpless. No matter how big problem comes your way, just have faith and move on. 'Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together'. Everyone have hope in some or the other way, we all set alarm clock before going to bed because we hope that we will wake up the next day. The people in the world are full of hopes and desires. 'Start everyday with a new hope, leave bad memories behind and have faith for a better tomorrow'. People are working on themselves because they hope that they will be successful one day. You often meet people who might be good with you at the starting but later they show their actual colours. There are many fake people but that doesn't mean that good people do not exist. Just because some people broke your trust,doesn't mean that everyone will do so. Have hope that you will get a good friend soon. If you really have a friend who is loyal behind your back then you are really lucky and never lose them. When a person is suffering from cancer or any chronic disease, they take medicines because they hope that they will be fine soon, every person have some or the other hopes in life which is good. 'The only thing stronger than fear is hope'.  If you are facing any problems in your life, have hope that everything will be alright and always give your best. Struggles are a part of life, never lose hope just because of some problems. ' Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise'. Be hopeful and enjoy your life. 'Never stop believing in hope because miracles happen everyday'.

Be positive

 

'Every thought we think is creating our future so always think positively'. Wrong things happen in our life but that doesn't mean that it will always be like that. Everything changes after some time so things will surely change for the better, just think positively. We have many examples of people who failed many times in their life but they still tried and eventually they succeed because they knew that they will be getting what they really want. They were not sad and depressed about it but tried harder and eventually they succeed. What really matters is the way we think and the way we act. There should always be a positive approach towards everything. 'Train your mind to see something good in everything'. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone take bad decisions but what matters most is to learn from them and to always remember that every thing happens for a reason. There comes a time when it is not possible to think positively and when only negative thoughts come into your mind ,do not let negative thoughts control your decisions and mind. 'Positive people also have negative thoughts. They just don't let those thoughts control them'. If you think negatively then these negative thoughts can control your mind and you will act accordingly which will be bad for you and could have many negative impacts in your life. Positive thoughts can lead you where you want to be because you will stay motivated towards your goal but negative thoughts could lead you nowhere and you will regret every decisions that you had taken. Always think that whatever comes your way, you will be able to handle it and you will achieve great heights with your hard work and dedication. Positive thinking creates a positive atmosphere and you can feel positive vibes due to which you can do your work effectively. 'Once you realize how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought again'. Think positive and be positive.

Be determined

 

Be determined towards your aim. Fight for your goals and work hard to achieve it. There are various distractions that will come your way and you might face many failures but that doesn't mean you will never succeed. These are just the problems that will come your way and you have to overcome it. Do not be sad and don't be demotivated. Wrong things happen but that will lead you to the right path. Do something that you really want to do. There are many people who will tell you about various things to do but it is called your life for a reason, do what you love to do. Try to focus on a single thing than to focus on everything and do what you really like otherwise it won't lead you anywhere. You will be a jack of all trade but master of none. Don't do this, just be the master of your own field. Your efforts need to be put in the right direction otherwise it also won't lead you to success. Consider a example of a fish trying hard to climb a tree, it is useless, right? So why to waste energy or work hard in wrong way. Use it in the right direction and you will surely achieve great heights. Albert Einstein once said-' Everybody is a genius but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it would spend its whole life believing that it is stupid.' Everyone has different abilities and potential and it would be really boring if everyone becomes doctor or engineer. 'Every human being is designed to be successful, achieve it with your efforts and hard work.' There are many other things to do. If you will follow your dreams and you love what you are doing then no one can stop you from being successful. 'If you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life.'