Relations

We have so many relations in our life. Be it a friend, a relative, brother, sister, best friend, or anything like that. Nowadays people do not know how to value a relationship. People do not know the true value of a person until they are gone. It is okay, i understand people are so busy these days that they do not have time to talk to their parents properly so how will they manage to talk to some friend or someone who is close to them. It is alright but have you ever thought that if somebody does same thing to you, how would you feel ? No, because you never think about others but yourself. How could someone do this to you. But the reality is that maybe someday you find yourself all alone because you never cared to give time to your friends or family. Maybe someday when you need your friend to talk to and then they tell you they can't talk because they are busy, then you will feel? Imagine yourself in that condition, whatever you do to someone, it will come back to you in an unexpected manner, no matter what. Everyone has their good and bad times and so there will surely come a time when you need that one person, be it a best friend or anyone but then when they will not give you time then you will understand your mistakes. It is very easy to say that i am busy so i can't talk but it is really hard to listen this when you need them the most. Karma is what will make you realize the importance of a person maybe soon or maybe some months or years later, but you will surely understand it someday. It is very easy to say that i don't get time to talk as i am very busy but it is really hard to keep a relation. Good communication is truly required if you want good relations with your friends and family. And just think about it, how much busy are you that you can't even spare 5 to 10 minutes in a week or a month to just make a call and talk to them or how much busy are you that you just can't message them, it really takes few seconds to message someone. It is just a lie that we are surrounded with, that we are busy. Well actually you are not that much busy, it is just that it is a matter of priorities. Your priority changes but yes, never forget about that person who was there with you when you were alone or in problem. It is okay, changes are a part of life and we should learn to accept it but never get too busy collecting stones that later on you realize that you have already lost a diamond. Good people are really very hard to find, so if you truly have people who care for you, value you and who just want some time of yours, then never lose these people because you might not know when can be the last time you will talk to them. Preserve good relations. No matter how much happy you think you are without these people but at some point, you will realize the value of these people because then there will be a void that will never be able to fill without them. So love your friends and family and make time for these people. And yeah, if you get in some relationship with someone and you are really happy with them, then also never ever forget about your friends cause they are the ones who were with you from the starting and nobody can know you better than them. Make some time for your friends and family in your busy schedule and always value them. They are really the true and caring people in your life. And yes, never leave anyone or never stop talking to someone, if they get change. It is okay, sit and talk to them why they changed and what is the matter then you will understand them. Give time to people and accept them how they are. Never try to change someone according to your wish, just understand them and accept them how they are. Your bonding with your closed ones should be so strong that no matter what happens, you people still value and care for each other. Good people are really hard to find, so if you have them, never lose them.