Know your worth

Sometimes it happens that we give some person a lot of importance but at last we end up realizing that they weren't worth it. Learn to respect yourself. Do not let others treat you wrong. If you are constantly being hurt or disrespected by that person then it is time to set yourself free from them and move on. They aren't worth your time. Sometimes people change a lot, and you never expected that things will be like that but it is the truth, you may not be of that much important to them now. Learn to know when to try harder to keep a relationship and when to move on. People would never realize how much you have done to them unless you stop doing that. Some people will take you for granted and that is maybe because you are always available for them and some people also take you for granted if you are no longer beneficial to their life. 'The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment to walk away.' 

 Make yourself busy and learn new things, do things that helps to grow you as an individual and just leave the people who disrespect you. Sometimes people confuse self respect with ego. When people say sorry even though it wasn't their mistake, it is because they value relations more that their ego. And if you are doing this for a person and still not treated properly. They yell at you or do not respect you then just leave. This is self respect. Maybe you aren't that much important for them as you thought you are. 'If you can't figure out where you stand with someone, it might be time to stop standing and start walking.' If you will not respect yourself then no one will. First learn to respect yourself and then respect others. Good people do not do bad with others or hurt them that is the reason why everyone hurts them. People think that they will always stay but they will leave if you will not respect them and then you will regret this all your life. So do not lose them. 'When you realize how much you are worth, you will stop giving people discounts.'

Time

Sometimes it is all the matter of time. No matter how much we want something to happen, it won't happen until the right time. So do not be sad about it. If you are not getting something at that time doesn't mean that you will never get it. You will but only at the right time. Sometimes we become very carefree when we have a lot of time, but at last ends up only regretting it that we have wasted our time, so use it wisely. Time can be the best or the worst for you, it totally depends on how you handle the situations. Sometimes problems come in your life and you just shatter , this is not the way to deal with problems. Things will change for the better but until then have faith in god and do your work sincerely. Sometimes you end up wasting all your time by just waiting for the right time to come. The time will come soon but till then work on the things that are important. Many times there is not any right time, you work and make that time the right time of your life. As time passes by, you all grow up and learn many things about life and people. Time teaches everything and that is what is called experience. One gains experiences with time. All great things require great risk, similarly it also require time. You need time to learn new things and apply them and by which you will be able to achieve success. 

Time is also said to be the best healer because as time passes by, we become more mature and know how to deal with different situations. You do not know how precious your time is, so do not waste it doing any useless stuff. Work hard to achieve your goals and make your parents proud. This should be the ultimate goal of a everyone's life so do spend your time wisely because you will never get that time again. Time changes everything. Everyone changes in some or the other way. No one is like the person, they were a year before. There might not be some big change but many small changes. The way we think, handle situations, it all changes. Sometimes no matter how hard your time is,  still there are some people who remains with you in your good and bad times, never ever lose them. These are the people who come as blessings in your life. Always be there for them. We all are afraid of being lonely, but if you really want to know yourself, give some time to yourself and analyze things that are happening in your life. Maybe you get to know the solutions of many of your  problems. What lies within us is often ignored by us. But never forget there is something inside you that can guide you. That is your conscience. Stop blaming others and take the responsibility of your own actions. Give time to the necessary things and then see how your life will change.   

Don't judge others

 

'Don't judge someone's attitude until you have felt their pain.' Nowadays most people are in a habit of judging everyone on the basis of their looks or by what they say to you. Stop judging people, you may not know what their journey is all about. Start understanding the reasons behind every action before judging them. And who are you to judge them ? Are you perfect ? The answer is no, nobody is perfect in this world and yet you always judge others. And not always what you see is right, you might feel that it is wrong but it may be right for them.You just haven't seen life from their perspective. You think that you are the only one who is perfect and have a right to judge others, but it is not so, you yourself have so many flaws, it is just that you do not know them because you are too busy judging others. Not everyone who is good to you or talk sweetly has good intentions for you. Maybe they are planning something else and you are totally unaware of it. Not everyone who gets angry with you or shout at you or fight with you is bad. Maybe they have very good intentions, it is just that you are unable to see that.  Every person you meet in life has a purpose which you will get to know after some time. Many times life put us in a situation where we have to do certain things although we are not willing to do , but we have to do it. Life is beautiful if you confidently face challenges. As life teaches you many things in the same way, different people teaches different things to you. If you will judge them then when you will understand them. Everyone is fighting some or the other kind of battle just with different circumstances and with different devils so understand their situation and then think about it. Never hurt anyone for your own sake. You may not know what kind of effect it will have on the other person. An act of respect and caring can do a lot. 'Walk a mile in my shoes, see what i see, hear what i hear, then maybe you will understand why i do what i do, till then don't judge me'.