Work hard and be successful

 

There comes a time in our life when we do not get the results as expected, well that does not mean that you will never be able to achieve them. It's just that you have to work harder for it. Everyone makes mistake and we should always learn from our mistakes to make our future better. 'Do not focus on results, you might not get it, focus on change and you will surely get the results.' No matter whatever you did all this while, it is okay. But do not waste your time doing useless things now. You may not get this time and this opportunity again. You might regret it later so it is better to stop wasting time and work for your success. Give time to yourself and spend time improving yourself. The thing is all of us are afraid of changes but you have to make some kind of change to make better things happen. You have to get up and work sincerely. Hard work beats talent. Whatever you are doing whether a job or studying, just give your best. Do not think that you can't do it, you can do it, just work hard and give your best.

Try to be better than yourself and you are in a competition with yourself not others. Try to improve yourself everyday. Hard work forever pays. Sacrifice everything for some time, just do your work and do it properly, you may get surprised with the results. Wasting your time doing random stuff won't give you any results, and you may not realize how easily time flies by, so stop making excuses and start doing work. Do not think about the mistakes or stupid things that you did in past, just focus and work hard to make your future better. 'Work hard silently and let your Lamborghini make noise.'  Work hard and achieve your goals. Doing something big once in a while will not work, you have to work regularly to be successful. Take small steps everyday and you will achieve what you want. 'Make your enemies jealous, your parents proud and yourself happy.' Whatever you did till now it is okay but from now do not waste time. Work hard and be successful or regret later, the choice is yours. 'Do something that your future self will thank you for.'

"If you want to be successful, you have to be willing to disappear for a while."

 "Do something that your signature becomes your autograph."

"I have a dream worth more than my sleep."

"Eye bags are getting bigger

Pimples all over.

Not enough sleep everyday.

But that what it takes,

If you are chasing your dreams."

Love and Lust

 

Whenever somebody ask you, "Do you love anyone?", we only think of girl friend or boy friend but love is not only that. Love is beyond all that. Most people think they are in love when actually it is just the lust, not love. Love is eternal, beautiful and it is forever whereas lust is just a temporary feeling and it is there for some time. Love is when you love someone without any conditions, without any reasons, without any  selfish intentions, it is when you love the person as they are and not try to change them. Love is when you can wait your entire life for that person even though knowing that they will never come. Love is forever. Lust is just for some time, you like that person or maybe you are just attracted for a while, there are many conditions you put on the person, and you do not actually care about them, it is just a selfish nature or maybe you just want someone for time pass.

Love is not only to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, it is when you have some special person in your life who truly cares for you and you also care for them, like your parents or friends or any one else. If you love someone, you are not afraid to admit it and you just accept it but when it is lust, you yourself doubt it many times, whether it is love or just lust. Love is when you do not see the external beauty of a person, just the internal beauty but people who are in lust just focus on the external beauty, they do not even bother to truly know you. In lust, the person focus more on themselves rather than on the other person whereas in love, people just focus on other person and love them unconditionally. We have a beautiful example of our parents, They love us unconditionally without any selfish motives. People who are in love can do things without expecting anything in return. People who are in love find excuses to meet you even after a long time but those in lust, they make excuses to avoid you. If you have any person who really loves you, then do not lose them. Life is too short to regret anything. Whatever you do, never ever forget about your parents who truly love you and never ever hurt them for some other person. Whatever you are, it is only because of them so do not leave them for some other person. Love your parents and take care of them.

There is reason behind everything

 

We live in a world where whatever we do, we will always be judged, whether it is good or bad. You meet every kind of people and everyone teaches you some or the other thing that would surely help you in future. There may be some people in your group who might have changed, but have you ever asked them why they had changed? Maybe no because we are all busy in our life or maybe we do not want to know. But just think of that person once. Just a simple act of caring can help them a lot. There are some people who just take everything negatively and no body wants to talk to them but there is a reason why they are like that. They need some people who can help them in changing their life and making them believe that life is good and if they get any people who can help them then those people are like angels for them. But it happens very few times, because not everyone cares for others. But if you want you can do so, it is very simple. Just a simple act of caring can do a lot in somebody's life. Saying everything and not doing anything is not required. You have to make efforts and take actions to do it and never forget who was there with you when no one else was. There is always a reason behind the changed behaviour of people, try to know the reasons and understand them before judging them. We live in the era where you do not find good people so if you have one, never lose them. We do not know what will happen the next day so take care of your loved ones and never judge them. Ask the reasons and help them in that situation. There is a reason why you meet everyone in life, why something happened the way it did and you will get to know the reasons but after sometime so just be patient. 

Sometimes we often lose some good people because of some misunderstandings or maybe something else. The reason why we do not get good people nowadays is maybe because good people are being used by someone, someone broke their trust often or betrayed them or  judged them or maybe any other reason like that. It is very hard to be good nowadays because they are the ones who are screwed first. 'Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care'.The thing is that 'people are hated for being real and loved for being fake'. Those people are real not fake and maybe that is the reason they are not liked by everyone. But it is okay, you do not like them but people with good intentions are respected everywhere and maybe you will also praise them one day. Having a good heart in this cruel world is courage not weakness. There are people who get angry very fast but that doesn't mean they do not respect anyone, it is just their way of showing love and care for others. Sometimes it is strange to know that when someone need someone to talk or to share any problem then you are always there but when you need someone, no body is there. So try to handle yourself and be a good person no matter how hard things get. Sometimes we all are in a state of a lot of confusions and we ourselves do not know what is happening in our life , and at that time you really need a friend or someone to help you and guide you and if you don't have one, then you only have to take care of yourself and guide yourself. 'BE YOUR OWN HERO'.

No Regrets

 

You know what is the worst thing at the end of your life? It is to have regret. ' In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take.'  Feeling sad for not doing what you really wanted to do, feeling sad that maybe your life have been better by your decision. The decision is all yours. It is your life, live it to the fullest and never regret anything. Do what you love to do because regret lasts forever. Thinking what could have been will not work, taking actions for your dreams is what is worth it. If you have never made efforts to fulfill your dreams then you do not have any right to blame destiny for your failure or someone  else for your mistake. You usually blame others for your failures because that is the easiest thing to do. You never want yourself to take the blame or to take the responsibility of your failures. But change your attitude, take responsibility of your failures, analyze what went wrong and how you can make it right. 

Just by sitting in the room and thinking of changing your life won't make any difference but taking actions and doing things will surely make a difference. One of the reason why we do not want to make efforts is because we are afraid of 'failure'. It is okay to have fear but never make it so strong that it overpowers your thoughts and actions. Just do your best, this the only way to overcome fear, do your best and leave rest to the god. Sometimes what you have planned for yourself may not be the best or maybe life has some better plans for you but keep working hard and you will surely be able to fulfill your dreams. So just have faith and do your best. Whatever you want to do, just do it now because life is unpredictable, no one knows what will happen the next day so just work in the present for your dreams and desires and make your life worth living. Never regret anything in your life. 'The cost of not following your heart, is spending the rest of your life wishing you had.'  You have got only one life, work hard for your dreams and be an inspiration for others as well. 'Making a big life change can be scary but living with regret is always scarier'.