New Beginnings

 

New Beginnings, 2020 has been a very hard year for everyone of us. Everything got change so rapidly and we are still dealing with it. Some are missing their school, some are missing their college etc. Let's make this time productive. Be grateful for everything that you have right now. Be it family, friends. loved ones etc. Sometimes we take a lot of time being sad about things that we do not have that we forget to be grateful for the things that we have, start to be happy about the things that you have right now. Forget about the past, someone hurt you, someone left you, someone betrayed you, forget everything and be grateful for today. Count your blessings more than the sad things that happened in the past. Face it and rise from it and start the NEW BEGINNING.

You know what ? The beginning are always the hardest maybe that's why many people do not even start doing something new but the moment you will start doing it, you will be a much happier person. Do what ever makes you happy and do not just stick to your past. That was in the past for a reason, don't spoil your present because of it. If you have your family, friends and loved ones, you are really lucky. Always make them remember that how special they all are in your life cause sometimes in the matter of seconds, anything can happen. So be happy for whatever you have right now. 

What's gone is gone. Whoever is not meant in your life, left so now learn to enjoy everything without them and try different other things that you like be it some hobby or travelling, anything. Just do what makes you happy.

Be motivated, stay focused and be grateful. It's your life, you can either be happy or sad, all that depends on you not on any other person. It's just the way of seeing things. If you will be positive, everything around you will make you feel good but if you will be negative then everything around you will make you feel sad. So be happy and stay motivated. Helping others will also make you happy, you can try that as well. So just start and be happy. It's your life, do something that people get motivated from you. 

Section 377

Do you know what homosexuality is ? Well, it is a sexual orientation. A homosexual person is romantically or sexually attracted to people of their own gender. Okay, so did it offend you ? If yes, then why? Do these people do not have any right to love ? Well they are also human being and they also have right to love the person of their choice. Be it a girl or a boy. We all should support these people rather than abusing them. It is their right, like we all have right to choose our partner, they should also have this right. They should not be abused or make fun of just because their sexual preference is different. You should be accepting them maturely so that more and more people can come out to their friends and family easily. See it is very easy to join the crowd and make fun of these people but very difficult to support them because then it might offend the so called society. We all think that a single person can't change anything in the society and that their point of view won't make any change in the society but actually it is not so. Even a single person can make a difference in the society by their good thoughts and good actions and these people when come together, can actually make a lot of difference. So you just need to change your mentality and accept people as they are. As you don't like it when people judge you based on your liking then who are you to judge these people based on their liking? Are they not human beings? Well, just think about it and make a difference in the society by changing your perspective. 

See, it is not that difficult if you really want to change your mentality. It took a lot of years for them to get their rights. And when they have got it, i request you to support these people. Do not create more problems for them just because of who they are. Everyone has a right to be themselves. So be a good person and support people. You may not know what kind of mental trauma or problems they are going through, so it is better to make a good place for them to live freely. We all assume that all the people are straight but it is not so. Many people are gay, it is just that we only assume them to be someone else that they are not. They all fight a battle with themselves. There are many people who took many years to figure out whether they are straight or not and there is no harm in it. Everyone should know about themselves, what they want from their life and all that. So when a person comes out, try to understand how difficult it is for them to accept themselves in a country like India where inter caste marriage is still not accepted in many places. See, I know this will take time but everything will be okay. It's just that we should help them by changing their mentality. It will take time but it isn't impossible. And to all those people who had accepted themselves, I want to say that you are not alone, there are a lot of people who are still trying to accept it and trust me, i am there for you. I won't judge you, in fact i will really appreciate it if you will accept yourself as you are. And don't worry, it is all natural. It is not unnatural or something against nature, it is perfectly fine to love someone of your own gender.  You are different but that doesn't mean that you are wrong. And loving someone is not a problem so just accept it and live happily. Be proud and grateful for who you are. I do hope you all will help these people to live happily. Let us all make a better place for them. 

It's okay not to be okay

 

Everyone faces some or the other kind of problems daily and trust me, it is alright. It is okay to face problems, it is okay not to be okay. Do not stress so much about your problems that you miss out some kind of opportunities. See, every time you will face some or the other kind of problems and if you will stop just because there is some kind of problem then you will never be able to do anything. Winners will win no matter how many problems they face and losers will lose no matter how many opportunities they will get. It is all a matter of mindset. Just think about it and you can surely achieve it. 

We all go through different phases of life and have already faced so many problems and learned so much till now. Think about the experiences you had and the lessons you had learned either good or bad. Both good and bad things need to be balanced otherwise there will be no fun. You will not understand the feeling of success and enjoy success if you have never experienced failure. Both kind of experiences have shaped us in a good way. And it is alright to face all these problems while you are struggling and working hard for your dreams. Dreams will turn into reality when you are willing to face anything to be there, when you badly want to succeed then nobody can stop you. You will meet a lot of kind of people. It is upto you which kind of people you chose to be with. Ignore fake and negative people and focus on building yourself because investing on yourself is the best investment. People leave and trust me, time wasted on these kind of people is the worst so it is better to focus on yourself. Real and good people will always be on your side no matter what so be yourself and work on your dreams. Feeling sad, dejected, irritated are just a part of the process. Trust the process and work hard till you achieve your goals. 

DREAMS DON'T WORK UNLESS YOU DO 

 

Stop Chasing People

Stop Chasing people. I know it is very easy to say these words but if you truly understand it then maybe half of your problems will get vanished. The problem with we all is that we try to find happiness in other people. The people who are temporary and when they leave, you are just sad and lonely all the time. See life doesn't stop just because of a single person. I know it is difficult to live without them but trust me, god put these temporary people in our life for a reason. There is a reason behind everything that happens so that we can learn. If someone is leaving you, then let them leave. God has planned something much better for you. God puts us in the same position often so that we can understand our lessons properly and stop doing same mistakes again and again. We often end up thinking that it was an accident but no, everything happens for a reason. We might not understand the reason earlier but after sometime, we surely will. In this world, everyone is busy but not someone is so busy that they cannot even call or message you , it doesn't take much time. But it is just a matter of priorities. You can be an important person to someone at some particular time but maybe in future, you aren't that important because their priorities changes. People do change, some for the better and some for the best, You have to figure out who are the people who were there with you always. If people don't value you or they say that they are busy every time them it is time to change your priorities. You will just bother them or irritate them by texting or calling them again and again because you are not as important to them now as you were earlier. Accept it as soon as possible and enjoy your life without these people. They may mean the world to you someday but the other day, all got change. Accept the change and move on. Don't stick to these people, you will only get disappointed. Just enjoy your life without them and be happy. Life doesn't end there. Live your life to the fullest, learn new things, travel new places and chase your dreams. We often confuse temporary people with the permanent one. So just be happy and work on your dreams. And yes one day, time will change then they will surely get to realize what they have lost.  

Relations

We have so many relations in our life. Be it a friend, a relative, brother, sister, best friend, or anything like that. Nowadays people do not know how to value a relationship. People do not know the true value of a person until they are gone. It is okay, i understand people are so busy these days that they do not have time to talk to their parents properly so how will they manage to talk to some friend or someone who is close to them. It is alright but have you ever thought that if somebody does same thing to you, how would you feel ? No, because you never think about others but yourself. How could someone do this to you. But the reality is that maybe someday you find yourself all alone because you never cared to give time to your friends or family. Maybe someday when you need your friend to talk to and then they tell you they can't talk because they are busy, then you will feel? Imagine yourself in that condition, whatever you do to someone, it will come back to you in an unexpected manner, no matter what. Everyone has their good and bad times and so there will surely come a time when you need that one person, be it a best friend or anyone but then when they will not give you time then you will understand your mistakes. It is very easy to say that i am busy so i can't talk but it is really hard to listen this when you need them the most. Karma is what will make you realize the importance of a person maybe soon or maybe some months or years later, but you will surely understand it someday. It is very easy to say that i don't get time to talk as i am very busy but it is really hard to keep a relation. Good communication is truly required if you want good relations with your friends and family. And just think about it, how much busy are you that you can't even spare 5 to 10 minutes in a week or a month to just make a call and talk to them or how much busy are you that you just can't message them, it really takes few seconds to message someone. It is just a lie that we are surrounded with, that we are busy. Well actually you are not that much busy, it is just that it is a matter of priorities. Your priority changes but yes, never forget about that person who was there with you when you were alone or in problem. It is okay, changes are a part of life and we should learn to accept it but never get too busy collecting stones that later on you realize that you have already lost a diamond. Good people are really very hard to find, so if you truly have people who care for you, value you and who just want some time of yours, then never lose these people because you might not know when can be the last time you will talk to them. Preserve good relations. No matter how much happy you think you are without these people but at some point, you will realize the value of these people because then there will be a void that will never be able to fill without them. So love your friends and family and make time for these people. And yeah, if you get in some relationship with someone and you are really happy with them, then also never ever forget about your friends cause they are the ones who were with you from the starting and nobody can know you better than them. Make some time for your friends and family in your busy schedule and always value them. They are really the true and caring people in your life. And yes, never leave anyone or never stop talking to someone, if they get change. It is okay, sit and talk to them why they changed and what is the matter then you will understand them. Give time to people and accept them how they are. Never try to change someone according to your wish, just understand them and accept them how they are. Your bonding with your closed ones should be so strong that no matter what happens, you people still value and care for each other. Good people are really hard to find, so if you have them, never lose them.

Indian Education System

Steve Wozniak said that success in India is based on getting a job, then where is the creativity ? Well many people didn't like his words but ask yourself, isn't that true, Our India Education System needs to be changed. There are so many new things happening but we still are learning about the old things which is of no use in future. Our curriculum needs to be updated. It had been so many years of our freedom but still, our education system is still the same. Why is that so. Nowadays, students or children are judged only on the basis of their marks. What is that, our school focuses only on our academics, why not other aspects. People who are creative or think differently are punished for writing other things in exam. They do not have any practical knowledge then how this kind of education can help someone in getting a job when they lack basic skills. We are only told about academics, why are we not given information about different fields like sports, entrepreneurship, film industry or something like that. Why is that we have to do the same stuff even though we know nowadays skills matters more than marks or degrees. People in foreign countries promote their children to try out different things and then they choose what they actually want to do in their life but we people in India are only told to be an engineer, a doctor , a lawyer or CA. Are these are the only options, no but still everyone either willingly or forcefully has to do something like this otherwise they don't exist in the society. Indians haven't won any noble prize since Independence. Why are we not promoting overall growth, mental peace, happiness and creativity. There are not much resources available for doing research work, so why not create our own resources. Everybody just focuses on getting good grades in class. Our education system is only about getting good grades. And because of it, everyone is getting lost, be it an artist, writer, actor, dancer , singer or someone else. We are losing our individuality by running in the same race which will never finish because first we will run to get good grades, then to get good college, then again to get good marks, then to get a good job and then run to get promotion. When will this stop. Why can't we collaborate instead of doing competition. Why can't we think about others and not only about ourselves. We can change this only if we really want to do it. People can organize some small workshops where they can tell children about various other field and moral values. We can tell children to not to run in a race but focus on improving yourself everyday. Nowadays we all have 4G connectivity, many children also have it but most of them, they just use it for their entertainment purpose. Why are they not willing to learn? It is just because of our education system which only promotes bookish learning and if someone thinks of learning any other skills, then they are scolded for not focusing on their academics. Society will only change if we, youth of India will do something. We can teach children about many things and how they can use their mobile phones as a platform to learn new things. There are so many medium, so many digital platforms to learn anything but it is only for those who really want to learn new things and want to improve themselves. There are a lot of people who don't even know about any of these mediums because they never even bothered to learn any new things. There are many digital platforms like youtube, google, there are many udemy courses as well by which you can learn many things. It is just that there are so many resources for you but only if you are willing to learn it. Work on your passion, teach yourself everything regarding your passion so that you can work on your dream too. India doesn't lack talent but it is just that we are unable to find it in this race. We wouldn't have got Sachin Tendulkar or Arijit Singh if they would have done what they were told to do instead of doing what they really loved to do.  But if your parents force you to do something else then also you can achieve your dream. Just start working towards your dream and passion along with doing what your parents want. It is difficult but it is worth it. This is the only way to make your mark. If everyone can work towards their passion then there will be no problem of unemployment because when you love what you do, you will surely be the best in it and then India can be a developed country very soon. Promote Entrepreneurship, it is not a rule that everyone will be doing a 9 to 5 job. Some people are meant to be their own boss. There are many things that children should be taught in school but if not there then we can help them in shaping India in a better way. We can talk to children and can tell them about many other good things. Don't just think about changing it, just do it. Everyone can help you with it. It is just that we need someone to start it, well i am ready to start and if someone will be willing to help me then they are surely welcome. Hope you all got my point and let just promote proper learning with no competition instead with collaboration. Let us show this to everyone that Indians are not like a machines and they do not lack creativity. If they want, then they can do wonders in their life by being in India only. Then everyone will be proud of Indians.

Make big things happen

Every body at some point in life thinks of doing something really great and some also do, while others are unable to do that. Have you ever thought why it is so? Well let me clear it up for you. See it is simple. Most of the people are living somebody else's dream, they are doing things they might even hate but are doing because they have so many responsibilities. Every one gets at that point when you can't dare to do something wrong that you might lose your job. But before that we have that time which when utilized properly can do wonders. I am not talking here of coming first in your class or having good marks. It is really nice if you have it but i don't judge people by their marks. I judge them by their skills in their work. Do the work that you always wanted to do. Live that life that you always dreamed of. That would be difficult but trust me it will be worth it after some time. It doesn't matter what your marks are, what really matters is to be the best in your field and to be a good person. People will remember you by your good behavior and the work you will be doing in your field. Not everyone can be Sachin Tendulkar or Arijit Singh but everybody can be somebody great and good in their life. But another problem that arises is that how to convince your parents for it. So I have a solution for that also. Just talk to them properly and explain them about your interests and how well you can do in that field and be successful and even then if they are enforcing things on you then take some time from them say 6 months or so , work for that thing that you really want to do and show them that you can be the best in your work. Then surely they might understand it and let you do that but if this doesn't work either then you have two options , either do only those things that your parents want you to do or do those things that your parents want you to do but along with it do things that you love to do. It will be difficult to manage both things but some years of hardships and hard work will surely pay you in future. Doing things that you love and being the best in it is one of the most satisfying and awesome feeling in the world. You might get successful in your life but you will be satisfied and happy only if you will love your work.You will need no one else to make you happy then. You will get happy and satisfied with your work and then that BIG thing will surely happen that you always dreamed of. And it is okay to not to have a plan. Just do small things everyday in the right direction and then no body can stop you. There are many people who just don't know what they want from their life, they are just going with the flow. They are really lost and they should give time to themselves in order to understand their love and passion. Think of that one thing that you can do for 24 hours or the thing that you can learn by yourself and you love learning it, well then this is your passion, follow it. And once you know what you want from life and you are determined enough to get it no matter how hard it is. Then trust me, no body in this whole world can stop you from being the BEST.

"   Be somebody that nobody thought you could be.   "