Work hard and be successful

 

There comes a time in our life when we do not get the results as expected, well that does not mean that you will never be able to achieve them. It's just that you have to work harder for it. Everyone makes mistake and we should always learn from our mistakes to make our future better. 'Do not focus on results, you might not get it, focus on change and you will surely get the results.' No matter whatever you did all this while, it is okay. But do not waste your time doing useless things now. You may not get this time and this opportunity again. You might regret it later so it is better to stop wasting time and work for your success. Give time to yourself and spend time improving yourself. The thing is all of us are afraid of changes but you have to make some kind of change to make better things happen. You have to get up and work sincerely. Hard work beats talent. Whatever you are doing whether a job or studying, just give your best. Do not think that you can't do it, you can do it, just work hard and give your best.

Try to be better than yourself and you are in a competition with yourself not others. Try to improve yourself everyday. Hard work forever pays. Sacrifice everything for some time, just do your work and do it properly, you may get surprised with the results. Wasting your time doing random stuff won't give you any results, and you may not realize how easily time flies by, so stop making excuses and start doing work. Do not think about the mistakes or stupid things that you did in past, just focus and work hard to make your future better. 'Work hard silently and let your Lamborghini make noise.'  Work hard and achieve your goals. Doing something big once in a while will not work, you have to work regularly to be successful. Take small steps everyday and you will achieve what you want. 'Make your enemies jealous, your parents proud and yourself happy.' Whatever you did till now it is okay but from now do not waste time. Work hard and be successful or regret later, the choice is yours. 'Do something that your future self will thank you for.'

"If you want to be successful, you have to be willing to disappear for a while."

 "Do something that your signature becomes your autograph."

"I have a dream worth more than my sleep."

"Eye bags are getting bigger

Pimples all over.

Not enough sleep everyday.

But that what it takes,

If you are chasing your dreams."

Love and Lust

 

Whenever somebody ask you, "Do you love anyone?", we only think of girl friend or boy friend but love is not only that. Love is beyond all that. Most people think they are in love when actually it is just the lust, not love. Love is eternal, beautiful and it is forever whereas lust is just a temporary feeling and it is there for some time. Love is when you love someone without any conditions, without any reasons, without any  selfish intentions, it is when you love the person as they are and not try to change them. Love is when you can wait your entire life for that person even though knowing that they will never come. Love is forever. Lust is just for some time, you like that person or maybe you are just attracted for a while, there are many conditions you put on the person, and you do not actually care about them, it is just a selfish nature or maybe you just want someone for time pass.

Love is not only to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, it is when you have some special person in your life who truly cares for you and you also care for them, like your parents or friends or any one else. If you love someone, you are not afraid to admit it and you just accept it but when it is lust, you yourself doubt it many times, whether it is love or just lust. Love is when you do not see the external beauty of a person, just the internal beauty but people who are in lust just focus on the external beauty, they do not even bother to truly know you. In lust, the person focus more on themselves rather than on the other person whereas in love, people just focus on other person and love them unconditionally. We have a beautiful example of our parents, They love us unconditionally without any selfish motives. People who are in love can do things without expecting anything in return. People who are in love find excuses to meet you even after a long time but those in lust, they make excuses to avoid you. If you have any person who really loves you, then do not lose them. Life is too short to regret anything. Whatever you do, never ever forget about your parents who truly love you and never ever hurt them for some other person. Whatever you are, it is only because of them so do not leave them for some other person. Love your parents and take care of them.

There is reason behind everything

 

We live in a world where whatever we do, we will always be judged, whether it is good or bad. You meet every kind of people and everyone teaches you some or the other thing that would surely help you in future. There may be some people in your group who might have changed, but have you ever asked them why they had changed? Maybe no because we are all busy in our life or maybe we do not want to know. But just think of that person once. Just a simple act of caring can help them a lot. There are some people who just take everything negatively and no body wants to talk to them but there is a reason why they are like that. They need some people who can help them in changing their life and making them believe that life is good and if they get any people who can help them then those people are like angels for them. But it happens very few times, because not everyone cares for others. But if you want you can do so, it is very simple. Just a simple act of caring can do a lot in somebody's life. Saying everything and not doing anything is not required. You have to make efforts and take actions to do it and never forget who was there with you when no one else was. There is always a reason behind the changed behaviour of people, try to know the reasons and understand them before judging them. We live in the era where you do not find good people so if you have one, never lose them. We do not know what will happen the next day so take care of your loved ones and never judge them. Ask the reasons and help them in that situation. There is a reason why you meet everyone in life, why something happened the way it did and you will get to know the reasons but after sometime so just be patient. 

Sometimes we often lose some good people because of some misunderstandings or maybe something else. The reason why we do not get good people nowadays is maybe because good people are being used by someone, someone broke their trust often or betrayed them or  judged them or maybe any other reason like that. It is very hard to be good nowadays because they are the ones who are screwed first. 'Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care'.The thing is that 'people are hated for being real and loved for being fake'. Those people are real not fake and maybe that is the reason they are not liked by everyone. But it is okay, you do not like them but people with good intentions are respected everywhere and maybe you will also praise them one day. Having a good heart in this cruel world is courage not weakness. There are people who get angry very fast but that doesn't mean they do not respect anyone, it is just their way of showing love and care for others. Sometimes it is strange to know that when someone need someone to talk or to share any problem then you are always there but when you need someone, no body is there. So try to handle yourself and be a good person no matter how hard things get. Sometimes we all are in a state of a lot of confusions and we ourselves do not know what is happening in our life , and at that time you really need a friend or someone to help you and guide you and if you don't have one, then you only have to take care of yourself and guide yourself. 'BE YOUR OWN HERO'.

No Regrets

 

You know what is the worst thing at the end of your life? It is to have regret. ' In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take.'  Feeling sad for not doing what you really wanted to do, feeling sad that maybe your life have been better by your decision. The decision is all yours. It is your life, live it to the fullest and never regret anything. Do what you love to do because regret lasts forever. Thinking what could have been will not work, taking actions for your dreams is what is worth it. If you have never made efforts to fulfill your dreams then you do not have any right to blame destiny for your failure or someone  else for your mistake. You usually blame others for your failures because that is the easiest thing to do. You never want yourself to take the blame or to take the responsibility of your failures. But change your attitude, take responsibility of your failures, analyze what went wrong and how you can make it right. 

Just by sitting in the room and thinking of changing your life won't make any difference but taking actions and doing things will surely make a difference. One of the reason why we do not want to make efforts is because we are afraid of 'failure'. It is okay to have fear but never make it so strong that it overpowers your thoughts and actions. Just do your best, this the only way to overcome fear, do your best and leave rest to the god. Sometimes what you have planned for yourself may not be the best or maybe life has some better plans for you but keep working hard and you will surely be able to fulfill your dreams. So just have faith and do your best. Whatever you want to do, just do it now because life is unpredictable, no one knows what will happen the next day so just work in the present for your dreams and desires and make your life worth living. Never regret anything in your life. 'The cost of not following your heart, is spending the rest of your life wishing you had.'  You have got only one life, work hard for your dreams and be an inspiration for others as well. 'Making a big life change can be scary but living with regret is always scarier'.

Know your worth

Sometimes it happens that we give some person a lot of importance but at last we end up realizing that they weren't worth it. Learn to respect yourself. Do not let others treat you wrong. If you are constantly being hurt or disrespected by that person then it is time to set yourself free from them and move on. They aren't worth your time. Sometimes people change a lot, and you never expected that things will be like that but it is the truth, you may not be of that much important to them now. Learn to know when to try harder to keep a relationship and when to move on. People would never realize how much you have done to them unless you stop doing that. Some people will take you for granted and that is maybe because you are always available for them and some people also take you for granted if you are no longer beneficial to their life. 'The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment to walk away.' 

 Make yourself busy and learn new things, do things that helps to grow you as an individual and just leave the people who disrespect you. Sometimes people confuse self respect with ego. When people say sorry even though it wasn't their mistake, it is because they value relations more that their ego. And if you are doing this for a person and still not treated properly. They yell at you or do not respect you then just leave. This is self respect. Maybe you aren't that much important for them as you thought you are. 'If you can't figure out where you stand with someone, it might be time to stop standing and start walking.' If you will not respect yourself then no one will. First learn to respect yourself and then respect others. Good people do not do bad with others or hurt them that is the reason why everyone hurts them. People think that they will always stay but they will leave if you will not respect them and then you will regret this all your life. So do not lose them. 'When you realize how much you are worth, you will stop giving people discounts.'

Time

Sometimes it is all the matter of time. No matter how much we want something to happen, it won't happen until the right time. So do not be sad about it. If you are not getting something at that time doesn't mean that you will never get it. You will but only at the right time. Sometimes we become very carefree when we have a lot of time, but at last ends up only regretting it that we have wasted our time, so use it wisely. Time can be the best or the worst for you, it totally depends on how you handle the situations. Sometimes problems come in your life and you just shatter , this is not the way to deal with problems. Things will change for the better but until then have faith in god and do your work sincerely. Sometimes you end up wasting all your time by just waiting for the right time to come. The time will come soon but till then work on the things that are important. Many times there is not any right time, you work and make that time the right time of your life. As time passes by, you all grow up and learn many things about life and people. Time teaches everything and that is what is called experience. One gains experiences with time. All great things require great risk, similarly it also require time. You need time to learn new things and apply them and by which you will be able to achieve success. 

Time is also said to be the best healer because as time passes by, we become more mature and know how to deal with different situations. You do not know how precious your time is, so do not waste it doing any useless stuff. Work hard to achieve your goals and make your parents proud. This should be the ultimate goal of a everyone's life so do spend your time wisely because you will never get that time again. Time changes everything. Everyone changes in some or the other way. No one is like the person, they were a year before. There might not be some big change but many small changes. The way we think, handle situations, it all changes. Sometimes no matter how hard your time is,  still there are some people who remains with you in your good and bad times, never ever lose them. These are the people who come as blessings in your life. Always be there for them. We all are afraid of being lonely, but if you really want to know yourself, give some time to yourself and analyze things that are happening in your life. Maybe you get to know the solutions of many of your  problems. What lies within us is often ignored by us. But never forget there is something inside you that can guide you. That is your conscience. Stop blaming others and take the responsibility of your own actions. Give time to the necessary things and then see how your life will change.   

Don't judge others

 

'Don't judge someone's attitude until you have felt their pain.' Nowadays most people are in a habit of judging everyone on the basis of their looks or by what they say to you. Stop judging people, you may not know what their journey is all about. Start understanding the reasons behind every action before judging them. And who are you to judge them ? Are you perfect ? The answer is no, nobody is perfect in this world and yet you always judge others. And not always what you see is right, you might feel that it is wrong but it may be right for them.You just haven't seen life from their perspective. You think that you are the only one who is perfect and have a right to judge others, but it is not so, you yourself have so many flaws, it is just that you do not know them because you are too busy judging others. Not everyone who is good to you or talk sweetly has good intentions for you. Maybe they are planning something else and you are totally unaware of it. Not everyone who gets angry with you or shout at you or fight with you is bad. Maybe they have very good intentions, it is just that you are unable to see that.  Every person you meet in life has a purpose which you will get to know after some time. Many times life put us in a situation where we have to do certain things although we are not willing to do , but we have to do it. Life is beautiful if you confidently face challenges. As life teaches you many things in the same way, different people teaches different things to you. If you will judge them then when you will understand them. Everyone is fighting some or the other kind of battle just with different circumstances and with different devils so understand their situation and then think about it. Never hurt anyone for your own sake. You may not know what kind of effect it will have on the other person. An act of respect and caring can do a lot. 'Walk a mile in my shoes, see what i see, hear what i hear, then maybe you will understand why i do what i do, till then don't judge me'.

Anger

 

'Anger is one letter short of DANGER'. Anger can do something very harmful to you as well as to the others. It is very important to control your anger. 'Strength does not lie in carrying heavy loads. Camels do that. Strength lies in controlling your temper'.  When you are angry, you are not in your senses  because you do useless things like yelling at others and getting more frustrated after doing it. So try to control your anger before anger controls you. Sometimes you take a decision in anger and you might end up regretting it all your life. 'You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger'. Be a good and a patient person. Learn to appreciate everything and learn to deal with all types of people without getting angry. Anger can only be controlled by you, you have to make efforts to control it, no one else will do that for you. Just be cool and calm. Sometimes things change, people change but that does not mean that you need to hurt yourself by getting angry. It is alright, try to understand the things and reasons behind everything. The truth might surprise you. Even if you are frustrated with everything in your life, still do not lose hope and be cool. Things will change not immediately but gradually. Great things take time. By being angry, you might end up losing your closed ones. So try not to be angry. 'If another can easily anger you,it is because you are off balance with yourself'. Never say something in anger that hurt the other person, you might end up losing them. 'Just because you are angry, does not mean you have the right to be cruel'. People are not perfect, relations are perfect so do no lose any relation just because of your stupid ANGER. 'Explain your anger, do not express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments'. It is good to be angry if someone does something wrong but tell them so properly without shouting at them. This way you will be able to control your anger. But most of the time you get angry on stupid things which is not good so avoid getting angry. Have self control. 'Make your anger so expensive that no one can afford it and make your happiness so cheap that people can always get it free'.

Expectations

 

'Expectation is the root cause of unhappiness.' Try not to expect anything from anyone if you really want to be happy. People are not always as you think, so never depend on them. No matter how much close you are to a person, they will change. There are very rare chances that they will be like that and will  not change but actually you are important for someone only for sometime, not always. So stop expecting that people should understand you, stop expecting that they will do whatever you will say them to do, they have their own life, do not impose something on them otherwise you might end up losing that person. 'Always hope for something but never expect'. You have to go through all disappointments in order to be happy. There might be some good people in your life but still try not to expect. I know not expecting something is a difficult task because we are willing to do that much for them but there comes a time in your life when you will get to see the true colours of people and then you will realize who are actually worth your time.' There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who won't even jump puddles for you.' There are people who are always there for other people but when they need someone by their side, no one is there and this really hurts a lot but you have to learn to deal with everything on your own because sometimes you have to be your own hero.

Do good for others without expecting something in return. Make yourself strong and don't get affected by these things because you will meet many people in your life, and not everyone will stay so keep it simple by not expecting anything. And do not lose your self respect. If a person avoids you, they do not want to talk to you then accept it and move on. Do not beg in front of them to talk, if they want to go, let them go. It only happens when you give some other person more importance than yourself , learn to respect and love yourself. 'Learn to carry yourself on your own back. People will drop you quicker than they pick you up.' 'Do not depend too much on anyone in this world, even your own shadow leaves you in darkness.' But it does not mean to not to have friends or something. Make friends and trust people because if there are bad people then there are also good people and everyone have some people in their life who will never leave them and will always be by their side but still expectation brings unhappiness so try to avoid it. 'Don't blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them.'

Think big

 

Thinking big doesn't mean that just thinking of doing something, you have to take actions and make things really happen. The problem with the people of is that they only want to do their job and work like a normal person, they do not even think of doing something other than that. Most people do not even know what they want to do and they didn't even try to know it. Sometimes there are people who just have a degree but no knowledge. The important thing is to have knowledge and that to have a practical knowledge not the bookish knowledge.If you have knowledge then you will get a job but if you can then think of creating jobs. The main reason of unemployment is that people have a degree but no knowledge and also because everyone want to do a good job but nobody thinks of creating job opportunities for other people. It is not that people are not capable of it, some people are capable but they don't do it due to fear of failure. Failure is just the part of life, you have to face it some or the other time, do something big and be successful.Do something that people will remember you even after your death. Follow your passion if you really want to be happy and successful. Being successful should not be the only aim of life but also to be happy. Take small steps in the right directions and gradually you will achieve your dreams.'Do something that your signature becomes your autograph'.  I am really inspired by a person named Trishneet Arora, he failed in class 8th but today he is the CEO of a company named TAC Security, he is an ethical hacker. He was passionate for hacking and after he failed in class 8th, he decided to drop school and give time to hacking and now he is the CEO of his company and the turnover is in crores. Success is not defined by your marks or by your degrees but by the knowledge you have. If you follow your passion, nobody can stop you from doing great things. Today the world needs more and more Entrepreneurs who could create job opportunities to fight with unemployment. Do something for your own country, not for other. We have many talented people but they are working for other countries so firstly make your country developed then work for other countries. This type of thinking can actually make a difference.  Doing big things doesn't only mean to establish your own company, but it  means to do the work you love to do, work for your country and help others in some or the other way, this is the best way to do great things.

Never lose hope

 

'Hope is a little whisper you hear when the entire world is shouting No'. Bad things happen in your life, you make wrong decisions, you make mistakes but always have faith that everything will be alright after some time. There are times when you feel completely broken and didn't know what to do, HOPE is the thing that keeps you going. People do not easily quit their life, it is the extreme case when they are hopeless and helpless. No matter how big problem comes your way, just have faith and move on. 'Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together'. Everyone have hope in some or the other way, we all set alarm clock before going to bed because we hope that we will wake up the next day. The people in the world are full of hopes and desires. 'Start everyday with a new hope, leave bad memories behind and have faith for a better tomorrow'. People are working on themselves because they hope that they will be successful one day. You often meet people who might be good with you at the starting but later they show their actual colours. There are many fake people but that doesn't mean that good people do not exist. Just because some people broke your trust,doesn't mean that everyone will do so. Have hope that you will get a good friend soon. If you really have a friend who is loyal behind your back then you are really lucky and never lose them. When a person is suffering from cancer or any chronic disease, they take medicines because they hope that they will be fine soon, every person have some or the other hopes in life which is good. 'The only thing stronger than fear is hope'.  If you are facing any problems in your life, have hope that everything will be alright and always give your best. Struggles are a part of life, never lose hope just because of some problems. ' Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise'. Be hopeful and enjoy your life. 'Never stop believing in hope because miracles happen everyday'.

Be positive

 

'Every thought we think is creating our future so always think positively'. Wrong things happen in our life but that doesn't mean that it will always be like that. Everything changes after some time so things will surely change for the better, just think positively. We have many examples of people who failed many times in their life but they still tried and eventually they succeed because they knew that they will be getting what they really want. They were not sad and depressed about it but tried harder and eventually they succeed. What really matters is the way we think and the way we act. There should always be a positive approach towards everything. 'Train your mind to see something good in everything'. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone take bad decisions but what matters most is to learn from them and to always remember that every thing happens for a reason. There comes a time when it is not possible to think positively and when only negative thoughts come into your mind ,do not let negative thoughts control your decisions and mind. 'Positive people also have negative thoughts. They just don't let those thoughts control them'. If you think negatively then these negative thoughts can control your mind and you will act accordingly which will be bad for you and could have many negative impacts in your life. Positive thoughts can lead you where you want to be because you will stay motivated towards your goal but negative thoughts could lead you nowhere and you will regret every decisions that you had taken. Always think that whatever comes your way, you will be able to handle it and you will achieve great heights with your hard work and dedication. Positive thinking creates a positive atmosphere and you can feel positive vibes due to which you can do your work effectively. 'Once you realize how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought again'. Think positive and be positive.

Be determined

 

Be determined towards your aim. Fight for your goals and work hard to achieve it. There are various distractions that will come your way and you might face many failures but that doesn't mean you will never succeed. These are just the problems that will come your way and you have to overcome it. Do not be sad and don't be demotivated. Wrong things happen but that will lead you to the right path. Do something that you really want to do. There are many people who will tell you about various things to do but it is called your life for a reason, do what you love to do. Try to focus on a single thing than to focus on everything and do what you really like otherwise it won't lead you anywhere. You will be a jack of all trade but master of none. Don't do this, just be the master of your own field. Your efforts need to be put in the right direction otherwise it also won't lead you to success. Consider a example of a fish trying hard to climb a tree, it is useless, right? So why to waste energy or work hard in wrong way. Use it in the right direction and you will surely achieve great heights. Albert Einstein once said-' Everybody is a genius but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it would spend its whole life believing that it is stupid.' Everyone has different abilities and potential and it would be really boring if everyone becomes doctor or engineer. 'Every human being is designed to be successful, achieve it with your efforts and hard work.' There are many other things to do. If you will follow your dreams and you love what you are doing then no one can stop you from being successful. 'If you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life.'

Conscience

'Conscience warns as a friend before it punishes as a judge'. Conscience is your inner soul  that helps you to know what is wrong and what is right.'Conscience is the voice of the soul'. If you listen to your inner voice, that is your conscience then you will not do anything wrong. Conscience will give you power to take right decisions. If you have done something wrong, then your conscience will tell you that it is wrong. If you really want to do good deeds and want to avoid bad things then always listen to your conscience. It will always help you to take right decisions. People often say that do what you love to do and always listen to your heart so that you do not have to regret any decisions later.  You have got only one life. What is the use of living it by doing things that you never wanted to do? It is your life, listen to yourself and do not get influenced by others. Just sit silently and talk to yourself, you will get all the answers. If you have taken a wrong decision, then your conscience will warn you that it is not the right decision. Understand it and take right decisions of your life. But the problem is that mostly people are unaware of their conscience. They do not realize how important conscience is. Every one has a conscience, just learn to hear it and understand your inner soul. People say that god resides in everyone of us, it is true. Conscience is our god and prevent us from doing bad things. Your conscience will never allow you to do wrong things, always listen to you. 'Never do anything against conscience, even if state demands it'.

Problems

 

Everyone is facing some or the other problems in their life. People become sad and depressed when they face some problems. Problems come in our life so that we could learn from them and become stronger day by day. Problem comes and goes. It doesn't stay forever so why to stress about it so much. Just think how many problems you have faced till now and how much you have learned from it. Every problem comes with a solution. If one solution doesn't work then try other with determination and in this way you can achieve whatever you desire. Life is all about gaining good and bad experience and learning from them. You need experience to understand different things. You think that you are the only one who owns a problem but it is not so, everyone is facing some or the other problem in their life and maybe you don't know about them. That is why you should never judge anyone because you might not know the actual reason why they are that way and the truth might surprise you. Life is far more better than what you think and you do not own all the problems of the world  so take a deep breath and relax. Do not think of a problem over and over, it will just make you more stressed. 'The problem is not that you have a problem, the problem is your attitude towards the problem.' Change your attitude towards problem and you will be able to face them easily. There is much more things to focus on other than your problems. Problems come to make us ,not break us. Just be courageous and face all the problems that comes your way and rise. You have your friends, family, share your problems with them. You will feel relaxed then. Sometimes you just want a friend who could listen to your problems, spend time with them and have a talk with them, you will feel good. Your problems will disappear soon, just have faith and face them. 'There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope'.

Know Yourself

The most important thing in life is knowing yourself. It is very difficult because you have time for everything except yourself. You help everyone but sometimes you need to help yourself with various things. You might not realize it because you had never given it a thought. But just sit there for a while and ask yourself- 'Do i know myself'? The answer would most probably be NO. Many problems can be solved if you can understand yourself. Sometimes you are just fed up of everything and you don't even know the reason . Talk to yourself at that time, maybe you will know the reason then. Introspect yourself to know what and why you are doing the things and are you happy for things that you are doing. 'Of course i talk to myself because sometimes i need expert advice.'  You are the expert of your life and that is the reason you should always talk to yourself, even if other people consider you mad. You can take the best decisions of your life when you will understand what you want from life. There is no other person who could understand you more than yourself and no one will going to change your life. You have to take steps to make it worth living. Your friends or family members will not be there with you every time to guide you, what is right and wrong. You yourself need to understand things. The problem is you are in a habit of blaming others for the wrong things that happen in your life. Stop doing that and understand somewhere only you are responsible for it, no one else. Take the decisions wisely and never blame others for it. Live your life and be happy. You have got only one life so enjoy it.  'Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.'

Understanding others

'Understanding is better than knowledge because there are many people who know you but very few who understand you.'  No matter whatever you do, just a small misunderstanding could ruin everything. The thing is very few people will be able to understand you but still at some point they may not understand. They may understand you when it happens to them. 'Never judge anyone's choices without understanding their reasons.' Always try to clear the misunderstanding because it is very important to have good communication with others. You should understand yourself firstly and then understand others. It is very important to understand others so that you can know how they feel and what are their perceptions about various things . You should be a good listener and should have good communication with others to have good understanding. Many times people do take you in a wrong sense, it is maybe because they cannot understand you. The best way to understand the problem or act of others is by putting yourself at that place and then thinking what you would have done if you were at his/her place. Most problems in a relationship or friendship can be solved if you can just understand each other. It is not that difficult, try and one day you will be able to understand others. And always take actions after thinking and understanding their situation. You may think you are right at that time but you might regret your decision later. Always be careful what you say to others because you may forget what you said but your words could have a great impact on others. Value other people because you might lose them just because of a simple misunderstanding. 'A good relationship is about two things- First appreciating the similarities and second respecting the differences.'

Change

Change is important in today's world because time is changing and you need to keep yourself updated with the latest things. The most important thing that needs to be change is mentality of people. Even though we all are living in 21st century, still there are people who have very bad mentality. Even now a girl is not safe at night, it's just because of some people who have bad mentality. There are people living in foreign countries as well but they are well educated and have a good approach towards everything. There are still many people who are ill literate and they didn't even know the value of education. Education is very important. Some people are well educated still they have a bad mentality. Your thoughts should be good because your thoughts make you what you are. You need to have good thoughts as you will act on your thoughts and then you will become like that. People who are good, are not courageous enough to stop the other person from doing wrong things or they do not oppose , they just stand there and watch the entire scene without even uttering a word. What's the use of being a person with good thoughts if you can't even stand for right things? This is the reason why crimes are increasing day by day. No one is bothered about it. They just get aware of things when they themselves face some problems. Stop being so selfish and change yourself. Things need to be changed. This can be the best place to live in, just change the way you think. There is nothing that is impossible, if you are determined enough to change things, it will change but it starts with you. You can, we can change the world but it always begins with you. 'Be the change you want to see in the world.'

Trust

Trust- It takes years to build but just a fraction of seconds to break. Never break someone's trust and if you do, that is the worst thing that you could ever do. One just get shattered when someone's break their trust. The problem is that people do not take feelings and trust of other people seriously, they just use other people for their need and once they realize they do not need them, they leave. Many people do friendship or they are in a relationship but they do not know the values of relations and trust. It is just like a game for them, when they are bored, they just leave without even telling the cause of leaving. You know the worst thing. It's that people will change and they will leave you no matter how close they are to you. They just leave, their priority changes. The person who says that they will remain good friends forever , change after some time and leave. Only few people are there who will remain with you and will never leave you. If you could not respect the feelings of others, then at least do not play with them. 'Never hurt anyone's feeling, even if it cannot mean anything to you ,it could mean everything to them.' I know things change, circumstances change but if they would have really cared for you then they will make an effort to be in touch, no excuses and no lies, no matter how hard the situation is. But they break your trust and leave. You cannot trust anyone except a few people because most people break promises and trust but there are only some for whom relations do matter a lot. Do not ever leave your friends alone just because you are in a relationship, because your friends may not tell but they really get hurt when their friends start ignoring them for others. Never forget who was there with you and helped you  when no one else was and value those people. People actually show their true colours  in difficult time. Most people leave you in hard time instead of helping you, never trust them.  'Never trust the person who lied to you and never lie to the person who trust you.'

Money can't buy happiness

Money is the thing that is making everyone crazy. People just want a lot of money by some  or the other way. Many people are working for money but they aren't happy, what's the use of living like this ? When you can't even enjoy your life. Money is important thing but not more important than your health and happiness. Some people are just like Robots ,doing certain stuff and getting money for that and do not have feelings for anything or anyone. You are human beings, you can do anything that you believe in and happiness is the most important thing but you people just want money. Money is not the only thing, you should be a good person, a person of values, people should respect you, these are more important than money. Money can't buy happiness, manners, good values and respect. You need to earn it. A poor person sleeps without any worries but a rich person is unable to have a peaceful sleep because he is worried about his wealth. True happiness can be seen on the face of a little child, because he just get happy by small things and he didn't even know anything about 'MONEY.' But as we grow up, this happiness is lost. Today in this busy world, everyone is trying to earn as much as they can and they are even ready to sacrifice their family and relations for money as they think money is the only thing that they need. But let me remind you, 'When you are on your death bed and taking your last breath, then money won't take care of you but your friends and family will' so try to have good relations with everyone. Money will come and go but people will always stay with you in your good and bad times. Sometimes MONEY is the root cause of unhappiness because due to this people are becoming greedy and could do anything for it, they are even ready to leave their family for that. But after earning a lot, when they realize their mistake, then it is too late and then they remain alone and unhappy for the rest of their life. You can earn money by various methods but you can't get your relations back so do not lose relations because of it. Value your family and relations and never leave them. It is not only that if you have money then only you are rich. If you have family and some good people in your life, who will be by your side always, then you are rich.

Being Beautiful

Beauty is not how you look after doing makeup. It is how you are as a person that defines it. People only judge a person by their face, body, looks etc which is the worst thing about the society, You should never judge a person until you are perfect and no body is perfect so you do not have any right to judge someone. There is always a reason why people do things, but you never bothered to know the reason. Walk in their shoes before judging them. Beauty is not the external looks but how good you are as a person that matters. If you are sensitive, caring. helpful, kind then you are a beautiful person. If others are judging you or comparing you with others, then that is their problem not yours. You should not change yourself for anyone, you are the best the way you are. If someone compares you with others, that is an insult. You are unique in your own way and should never be compared with anyone.People will always judge you no matter what, you can't make everyone happy, so try to be a good person in your eyes because people also have problem with God. If beauty was the thing that matters then actor and actress must be very happy in their life but it is not so, they also have problem with some or the other thing. It is the character that actually matters because ultimately you have to deal with the character not the looks. People just try to be fit, good looking but if you can't help a person or do not understand the problems of other, then your beauty doesn't matter. Change your thinking and appreciate the person the way they are otherwise you might end up losing someone.The world needs people with a good heart and pure soul who could help them ,not the person with a beautiful face. Be happy with yourself and if you really want to be great, then do not focus on looking good but on being good. 'No beauty shines brighter than that of a good heart.'

Mistakes

 

Mistakes are what makes you human being. If you do not make mistakes, you will not be able to learn new things. Some people make so many mistakes in their life that they consider themselves a loser but it is not so. Mistakes help us to grow. No body is perfect, everyone make mistakes, some are small which can be forgotten but some mistakes remain in our mind forever. Try not to make mistake that you might end up losing something or someone. You should never think about the mistake you did in past. Just learn from your mistakes and move on. Never make same mistakes again and again. Sometimes you often take bad decisions like you might have thought that the other person is your good friend but actually it is not so. Bad decisions direct us to the right place in our life which we realize later on. Some people come in our life just to teach a lesson and life teaches us the same lesson again and again until we learn from them.'The best teacher is your last mistake.' Mistakes are also important as , you can make yourself better  by learning from them. You might make bad decision of trusting the people and believing them who are not worthy of it and then blame some other person for it. You should not blame others  and always accept your mistakes in order to learn from them. People get experience by making mistakes and learning from them. You should use your experience in present to make your future bright. As soon as you realize your mistake, say sorry as simple as that. 'Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to accept it.' Do not put your ego there otherwise you might lose someone.  It is not at all bad to make mistakes but if people can't accept that, they do not deserve to be around you. Never judge someone by their mistake but how they make it right. 'Mistakes are a proof that you are trying.'

Help Others

You know how to make this world a better place? The answer is simple, just by helping others. Many of you do not know that a simple act of caring means a lot. If you will help others, you will experience an amazing feeling, a satisfaction which can't be felt by doing something else. You should always try to help other people. Imagine a situation when you are in a problem, Suppose you need money for your admission and you do not have that much money so you asked some other people and they refused to help you. How bad you will feel.  And imagine other situation when a person is helping you by providing the required money , then you will be so happy and would believe that good people do exist in the world. Try to help others in every possible way. People lose hope in their life because at one point of their life, they experience something which  may break them and then they need people who can help them but there is no one who could do so and then they start hating this world . Do not let that happen and make world a better place to live in. People are busy in their own life , so self centered that they do not bother about any one or anything so they do not think of helping others. People can give 10-20 rupees tip to a waiter in a restaurant but can't give that much money to any needy people. Guys show some humanity and do try to help a needy person.Maybe one day you also need some help and then no one is there to help you. If you will help others, it will come back to you in an unexpected manner. If you want to be a good person then help others. ' The world is full of good people, if you can't find one, be one.'

Dream Big

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'Life is short. Do not waste it living someone else's life. ' Most people often do things that they do not want to do and spend their whole life living in that way. Do what you love to do, have courage to follow your dreams and do something for which you are passionate about. If you love what you are doing, you will be happy and you will be able to enjoy your life otherwise you will just regret your decision afterwards. Even if you want to do something other than engineering ,medical or law and you are even good at it then your parents do not support you because they think it is not worth it. But maybe they do not have knowledge of other fields and they have seen successful people in that field only and so they want you to do that. You should tell them it is not true and tell them about the people who are successful in other field also so that they will have an idea of other fields and maybe they will support you then. If not , then do not be sad and do something for your parents and on the other side do things that you are passionate about and after fulfilling your parent's dream, do what you love to do and then they will surely support you because you will be settled then and they know you have a backup plan even if you fail in doing things that you are passionate about. Do not stress over things that you can't control. Just have faith and confidence in yourself that YOU CAN DO IT.  You will be able to live your dreams, just be patient , have faith, always work hard for your dreams and make your parents proud.' Go after your dream, no matter how unattainable others think it is.'

Mother

I believe that Angels do exist in reality and they are 'mothers'. God has sent his special angels for us in form of a mother.  No matter how old you get or wherever you go, you always want your mother when you are not feeling good. She has a special place in your life and whose place can't be taken by some other person. She is the most important person in your life. Sometimes you actually do not realize the what she does for you, you often ignore her efforts and do not realize her importance in your life. You may realize this after a long time, when maybe it is too late. She does not want big things from you but just some quality time to be spend with her. She is the one who will be there for you when no one else will be. You often take her for granted and may shout at her or do something like that but you should always apologize as soon as you realize your mistake because just by hearing a sorry, she would be happy. She would always forgive you no matter what you have done and will be by your side always. It is not easy to carry you nine months and take care of you all the time. She takes care of all your little things so never ever take her for granted. You may not realize that even a small thing can also hurt her a lot so take care of her and make sure you are not doing anything that hurts her. She is the one who works day and night for you without any leave. 'Always love your mother cause you will never get another.'

Friends

'Friends are good link in the chain of life.' Friends are people with whom you can share anything at any time, whether it is 12 or 2 at night, they still listen to your useless talks without getting bored. Some friends would always stay by your side no matter what and never ever lose those friends.  'Good friends are like stars, you may not always see them but you know they are always there.' Life is good  if you know how to enjoy it and to enjoy it to the fullest you need family and friends. Imagine if you do not have a single friend , how boring life could be then. Everyone needs someone with whom they can share their problems, sorrows and also their happiness and they are friends.Friends may not necessarily be of your age group only, they can be younger or older than you, if you have good understanding with them ,they could be good friends. But nowadays it is a bit hard to find true friends because you do not know the true intentions of the other person so if you have good friends, you have everything. Not all the time you need a boy friend or a girl friend, but a good friend by your side to listen to you and understand you. Friends are like treasure, so be happy if you have one.

Life

Many of you have read the quote,"Life doesn't get easier, we get stronger". It is true ,we grow stronger day by day without even realizing this. Difficulties and challenges in our life make us stronger. Life is beautiful if we can enjoy each and every moment of life. No body knows what will happen the next day so it is better to live in the present peacefully and enjoy each and every second of life. You know the best thing or the worst thing about life- It's that time is never the same and that you can always grow and get better. We should accept the best or the worst things in our life and should learn from them, this is the most important part of growing up.