Conscience

'Conscience warns as a friend before it punishes as a judge'. Conscience is your inner soul  that helps you to know what is wrong and what is right.'Conscience is the voice of the soul'. If you listen to your inner voice, that is your conscience then you will not do anything wrong. Conscience will give you power to take right decisions. If you have done something wrong, then your conscience will tell you that it is wrong. If you really want to do good deeds and want to avoid bad things then always listen to your conscience. It will always help you to take right decisions. People often say that do what you love to do and always listen to your heart so that you do not have to regret any decisions later.  You have got only one life. What is the use of living it by doing things that you never wanted to do? It is your life, listen to yourself and do not get influenced by others. Just sit silently and talk to yourself, you will get all the answers. If you have taken a wrong decision, then your conscience will warn you that it is not the right decision. Understand it and take right decisions of your life. But the problem is that mostly people are unaware of their conscience. They do not realize how important conscience is. Every one has a conscience, just learn to hear it and understand your inner soul. People say that god resides in everyone of us, it is true. Conscience is our god and prevent us from doing bad things. Your conscience will never allow you to do wrong things, always listen to you. 'Never do anything against conscience, even if state demands it'.

Problems

 

Everyone is facing some or the other problems in their life. People become sad and depressed when they face some problems. Problems come in our life so that we could learn from them and become stronger day by day. Problem comes and goes. It doesn't stay forever so why to stress about it so much. Just think how many problems you have faced till now and how much you have learned from it. Every problem comes with a solution. If one solution doesn't work then try other with determination and in this way you can achieve whatever you desire. Life is all about gaining good and bad experience and learning from them. You need experience to understand different things. You think that you are the only one who owns a problem but it is not so, everyone is facing some or the other problem in their life and maybe you don't know about them. That is why you should never judge anyone because you might not know the actual reason why they are that way and the truth might surprise you. Life is far more better than what you think and you do not own all the problems of the world  so take a deep breath and relax. Do not think of a problem over and over, it will just make you more stressed. 'The problem is not that you have a problem, the problem is your attitude towards the problem.' Change your attitude towards problem and you will be able to face them easily. There is much more things to focus on other than your problems. Problems come to make us ,not break us. Just be courageous and face all the problems that comes your way and rise. You have your friends, family, share your problems with them. You will feel relaxed then. Sometimes you just want a friend who could listen to your problems, spend time with them and have a talk with them, you will feel good. Your problems will disappear soon, just have faith and face them. 'There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope'.

Know Yourself

The most important thing in life is knowing yourself. It is very difficult because you have time for everything except yourself. You help everyone but sometimes you need to help yourself with various things. You might not realize it because you had never given it a thought. But just sit there for a while and ask yourself- 'Do i know myself'? The answer would most probably be NO. Many problems can be solved if you can understand yourself. Sometimes you are just fed up of everything and you don't even know the reason . Talk to yourself at that time, maybe you will know the reason then. Introspect yourself to know what and why you are doing the things and are you happy for things that you are doing. 'Of course i talk to myself because sometimes i need expert advice.'  You are the expert of your life and that is the reason you should always talk to yourself, even if other people consider you mad. You can take the best decisions of your life when you will understand what you want from life. There is no other person who could understand you more than yourself and no one will going to change your life. You have to take steps to make it worth living. Your friends or family members will not be there with you every time to guide you, what is right and wrong. You yourself need to understand things. The problem is you are in a habit of blaming others for the wrong things that happen in your life. Stop doing that and understand somewhere only you are responsible for it, no one else. Take the decisions wisely and never blame others for it. Live your life and be happy. You have got only one life so enjoy it.  'Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.'

Understanding others

'Understanding is better than knowledge because there are many people who know you but very few who understand you.'  No matter whatever you do, just a small misunderstanding could ruin everything. The thing is very few people will be able to understand you but still at some point they may not understand. They may understand you when it happens to them. 'Never judge anyone's choices without understanding their reasons.' Always try to clear the misunderstanding because it is very important to have good communication with others. You should understand yourself firstly and then understand others. It is very important to understand others so that you can know how they feel and what are their perceptions about various things . You should be a good listener and should have good communication with others to have good understanding. Many times people do take you in a wrong sense, it is maybe because they cannot understand you. The best way to understand the problem or act of others is by putting yourself at that place and then thinking what you would have done if you were at his/her place. Most problems in a relationship or friendship can be solved if you can just understand each other. It is not that difficult, try and one day you will be able to understand others. And always take actions after thinking and understanding their situation. You may think you are right at that time but you might regret your decision later. Always be careful what you say to others because you may forget what you said but your words could have a great impact on others. Value other people because you might lose them just because of a simple misunderstanding. 'A good relationship is about two things- First appreciating the similarities and second respecting the differences.'

Change

Change is important in today's world because time is changing and you need to keep yourself updated with the latest things. The most important thing that needs to be change is mentality of people. Even though we all are living in 21st century, still there are people who have very bad mentality. Even now a girl is not safe at night, it's just because of some people who have bad mentality. There are people living in foreign countries as well but they are well educated and have a good approach towards everything. There are still many people who are ill literate and they didn't even know the value of education. Education is very important. Some people are well educated still they have a bad mentality. Your thoughts should be good because your thoughts make you what you are. You need to have good thoughts as you will act on your thoughts and then you will become like that. People who are good, are not courageous enough to stop the other person from doing wrong things or they do not oppose , they just stand there and watch the entire scene without even uttering a word. What's the use of being a person with good thoughts if you can't even stand for right things? This is the reason why crimes are increasing day by day. No one is bothered about it. They just get aware of things when they themselves face some problems. Stop being so selfish and change yourself. Things need to be changed. This can be the best place to live in, just change the way you think. There is nothing that is impossible, if you are determined enough to change things, it will change but it starts with you. You can, we can change the world but it always begins with you. 'Be the change you want to see in the world.'

Trust

Trust- It takes years to build but just a fraction of seconds to break. Never break someone's trust and if you do, that is the worst thing that you could ever do. One just get shattered when someone's break their trust. The problem is that people do not take feelings and trust of other people seriously, they just use other people for their need and once they realize they do not need them, they leave. Many people do friendship or they are in a relationship but they do not know the values of relations and trust. It is just like a game for them, when they are bored, they just leave without even telling the cause of leaving. You know the worst thing. It's that people will change and they will leave you no matter how close they are to you. They just leave, their priority changes. The person who says that they will remain good friends forever , change after some time and leave. Only few people are there who will remain with you and will never leave you. If you could not respect the feelings of others, then at least do not play with them. 'Never hurt anyone's feeling, even if it cannot mean anything to you ,it could mean everything to them.' I know things change, circumstances change but if they would have really cared for you then they will make an effort to be in touch, no excuses and no lies, no matter how hard the situation is. But they break your trust and leave. You cannot trust anyone except a few people because most people break promises and trust but there are only some for whom relations do matter a lot. Do not ever leave your friends alone just because you are in a relationship, because your friends may not tell but they really get hurt when their friends start ignoring them for others. Never forget who was there with you and helped you  when no one else was and value those people. People actually show their true colours  in difficult time. Most people leave you in hard time instead of helping you, never trust them.  'Never trust the person who lied to you and never lie to the person who trust you.'

Money can't buy happiness

Money is the thing that is making everyone crazy. People just want a lot of money by some  or the other way. Many people are working for money but they aren't happy, what's the use of living like this ? When you can't even enjoy your life. Money is important thing but not more important than your health and happiness. Some people are just like Robots ,doing certain stuff and getting money for that and do not have feelings for anything or anyone. You are human beings, you can do anything that you believe in and happiness is the most important thing but you people just want money. Money is not the only thing, you should be a good person, a person of values, people should respect you, these are more important than money. Money can't buy happiness, manners, good values and respect. You need to earn it. A poor person sleeps without any worries but a rich person is unable to have a peaceful sleep because he is worried about his wealth. True happiness can be seen on the face of a little child, because he just get happy by small things and he didn't even know anything about 'MONEY.' But as we grow up, this happiness is lost. Today in this busy world, everyone is trying to earn as much as they can and they are even ready to sacrifice their family and relations for money as they think money is the only thing that they need. But let me remind you, 'When you are on your death bed and taking your last breath, then money won't take care of you but your friends and family will' so try to have good relations with everyone. Money will come and go but people will always stay with you in your good and bad times. Sometimes MONEY is the root cause of unhappiness because due to this people are becoming greedy and could do anything for it, they are even ready to leave their family for that. But after earning a lot, when they realize their mistake, then it is too late and then they remain alone and unhappy for the rest of their life. You can earn money by various methods but you can't get your relations back so do not lose relations because of it. Value your family and relations and never leave them. It is not only that if you have money then only you are rich. If you have family and some good people in your life, who will be by your side always, then you are rich.

Being Beautiful

Beauty is not how you look after doing makeup. It is how you are as a person that defines it. People only judge a person by their face, body, looks etc which is the worst thing about the society, You should never judge a person until you are perfect and no body is perfect so you do not have any right to judge someone. There is always a reason why people do things, but you never bothered to know the reason. Walk in their shoes before judging them. Beauty is not the external looks but how good you are as a person that matters. If you are sensitive, caring. helpful, kind then you are a beautiful person. If others are judging you or comparing you with others, then that is their problem not yours. You should not change yourself for anyone, you are the best the way you are. If someone compares you with others, that is an insult. You are unique in your own way and should never be compared with anyone.People will always judge you no matter what, you can't make everyone happy, so try to be a good person in your eyes because people also have problem with God. If beauty was the thing that matters then actor and actress must be very happy in their life but it is not so, they also have problem with some or the other thing. It is the character that actually matters because ultimately you have to deal with the character not the looks. People just try to be fit, good looking but if you can't help a person or do not understand the problems of other, then your beauty doesn't matter. Change your thinking and appreciate the person the way they are otherwise you might end up losing someone.The world needs people with a good heart and pure soul who could help them ,not the person with a beautiful face. Be happy with yourself and if you really want to be great, then do not focus on looking good but on being good. 'No beauty shines brighter than that of a good heart.'

Mistakes

 

Mistakes are what makes you human being. If you do not make mistakes, you will not be able to learn new things. Some people make so many mistakes in their life that they consider themselves a loser but it is not so. Mistakes help us to grow. No body is perfect, everyone make mistakes, some are small which can be forgotten but some mistakes remain in our mind forever. Try not to make mistake that you might end up losing something or someone. You should never think about the mistake you did in past. Just learn from your mistakes and move on. Never make same mistakes again and again. Sometimes you often take bad decisions like you might have thought that the other person is your good friend but actually it is not so. Bad decisions direct us to the right place in our life which we realize later on. Some people come in our life just to teach a lesson and life teaches us the same lesson again and again until we learn from them.'The best teacher is your last mistake.' Mistakes are also important as , you can make yourself better  by learning from them. You might make bad decision of trusting the people and believing them who are not worthy of it and then blame some other person for it. You should not blame others  and always accept your mistakes in order to learn from them. People get experience by making mistakes and learning from them. You should use your experience in present to make your future bright. As soon as you realize your mistake, say sorry as simple as that. 'Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to accept it.' Do not put your ego there otherwise you might lose someone.  It is not at all bad to make mistakes but if people can't accept that, they do not deserve to be around you. Never judge someone by their mistake but how they make it right. 'Mistakes are a proof that you are trying.'

Help Others

You know how to make this world a better place? The answer is simple, just by helping others. Many of you do not know that a simple act of caring means a lot. If you will help others, you will experience an amazing feeling, a satisfaction which can't be felt by doing something else. You should always try to help other people. Imagine a situation when you are in a problem, Suppose you need money for your admission and you do not have that much money so you asked some other people and they refused to help you. How bad you will feel.  And imagine other situation when a person is helping you by providing the required money , then you will be so happy and would believe that good people do exist in the world. Try to help others in every possible way. People lose hope in their life because at one point of their life, they experience something which  may break them and then they need people who can help them but there is no one who could do so and then they start hating this world . Do not let that happen and make world a better place to live in. People are busy in their own life , so self centered that they do not bother about any one or anything so they do not think of helping others. People can give 10-20 rupees tip to a waiter in a restaurant but can't give that much money to any needy people. Guys show some humanity and do try to help a needy person.Maybe one day you also need some help and then no one is there to help you. If you will help others, it will come back to you in an unexpected manner. If you want to be a good person then help others. ' The world is full of good people, if you can't find one, be one.'