Anger

 

'Anger is one letter short of DANGER'. Anger can do something very harmful to you as well as to the others. It is very important to control your anger. 'Strength does not lie in carrying heavy loads. Camels do that. Strength lies in controlling your temper'.  When you are angry, you are not in your senses  because you do useless things like yelling at others and getting more frustrated after doing it. So try to control your anger before anger controls you. Sometimes you take a decision in anger and you might end up regretting it all your life. 'You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger'. Be a good and a patient person. Learn to appreciate everything and learn to deal with all types of people without getting angry. Anger can only be controlled by you, you have to make efforts to control it, no one else will do that for you. Just be cool and calm. Sometimes things change, people change but that does not mean that you need to hurt yourself by getting angry. It is alright, try to understand the things and reasons behind everything. The truth might surprise you. Even if you are frustrated with everything in your life, still do not lose hope and be cool. Things will change not immediately but gradually. Great things take time. By being angry, you might end up losing your closed ones. So try not to be angry. 'If another can easily anger you,it is because you are off balance with yourself'. Never say something in anger that hurt the other person, you might end up losing them. 'Just because you are angry, does not mean you have the right to be cruel'. People are not perfect, relations are perfect so do no lose any relation just because of your stupid ANGER. 'Explain your anger, do not express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments'. It is good to be angry if someone does something wrong but tell them so properly without shouting at them. This way you will be able to control your anger. But most of the time you get angry on stupid things which is not good so avoid getting angry. Have self control. 'Make your anger so expensive that no one can afford it and make your happiness so cheap that people can always get it free'.