Expectations

 

'Expectation is the root cause of unhappiness.' Try not to expect anything from anyone if you really want to be happy. People are not always as you think, so never depend on them. No matter how much close you are to a person, they will change. There are very rare chances that they will be like that and will  not change but actually you are important for someone only for sometime, not always. So stop expecting that people should understand you, stop expecting that they will do whatever you will say them to do, they have their own life, do not impose something on them otherwise you might end up losing that person. 'Always hope for something but never expect'. You have to go through all disappointments in order to be happy. There might be some good people in your life but still try not to expect. I know not expecting something is a difficult task because we are willing to do that much for them but there comes a time in your life when you will get to see the true colours of people and then you will realize who are actually worth your time.' There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who won't even jump puddles for you.' There are people who are always there for other people but when they need someone by their side, no one is there and this really hurts a lot but you have to learn to deal with everything on your own because sometimes you have to be your own hero.

Do good for others without expecting something in return. Make yourself strong and don't get affected by these things because you will meet many people in your life, and not everyone will stay so keep it simple by not expecting anything. And do not lose your self respect. If a person avoids you, they do not want to talk to you then accept it and move on. Do not beg in front of them to talk, if they want to go, let them go. It only happens when you give some other person more importance than yourself , learn to respect and love yourself. 'Learn to carry yourself on your own back. People will drop you quicker than they pick you up.' 'Do not depend too much on anyone in this world, even your own shadow leaves you in darkness.' But it does not mean to not to have friends or something. Make friends and trust people because if there are bad people then there are also good people and everyone have some people in their life who will never leave them and will always be by their side but still expectation brings unhappiness so try to avoid it. 'Don't blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them.'